My wife Ariga and I decided that the time had come to leave our apartment on Nalbandyan Street, across from the Republic Square metro station. There were several factors at play when making our decision, such as the dust, the car fumes, the drag races held late night on Nalbandyan from Republic Square to the intersection with Tumanyan Street, the groans from the neighbor entertaining male guests nearly every day and night, and others. But the main reason, at least for Ariga, was the landlord, Valer.
I found the apartment in April of 2002, with an assistance of a broker named Torkom, who is now a friend and generally a fantastic guy. The second I entered the door I knew it was a special place, as I immediately felt an unexplainable aura of tranquility. I decided to take it then and there, papers were drawn a couple of days later, and I moved in. Gradually I made a home for myself, purchasing things that I intended to use there or someplace else in the future, if necessary. When I had to leave at the end of that year, I told the landlords that I would be back eventually, and I asked that they would leave the place to me again upon my return. I visited the following winter for just over a month, but did not resume my professional life in Armenia until the fall of 2004. But the place was waiting for me.
The landlords, Ophelia and Valer, apparently preferred that I stay in the apartment. While I was gone they rented it to other tenants but they were untrustworthy and each stayed for only a few months. Ophelia had showed me the apartment in 2002, and I remember being entranced with the sweet smell of church incense as we walked in which was being burned apparently to keep the spirits at bay. Her husband Valer was out of the country on business, and I did not meet him until several months later. But I did not get to know him very well until well into my third stay. I came to understand that he is an eccentric, anal, and paranoid guy but generally has a gentle, yet gruff personality, if that can be imagined. His eyes have a stunning, bluish-gray hue, uncharacteristic of Armenian men, which tend to stop you in your tracks and persuade you to pay him attention.
For some reason Ariga could not stand him from their first meeting. She always found issues that she needed to protest regarding his actions or perceived weird behavior. I always managed to calm her down, to convince her that he was a fairly nice guy, albeit somewhat strange, but we had nevertheless a mutual trust. I knew for the most part that I could rely on him to take care of whatever was needed regarding the apartment’s maintenance, and he could count on me for a consistent, timely paid rent.
The problems all started a while back. In the spring that came after I met Ariga I decide to take her to Boston with me so that she could meet my parents, as I intended to marry her. We were in a rush to leave the apartment and couldn’t finish tidying up, but a close friend assured me that he would come by later that afternoon and convinced me to leave the keys with him for safe keeping. That clearly proved to be a mistake, as not only did he not take out a couple of small trash bags and wash a few dishes in the sink as I believed he would, he brought up a female friend to the apartment one afternoon. While he was there Valer showed up, saw the disarray, the girl, and then became disgusted. When we returned to Yerevan he told me that I was keeping a “pig sty,” which was I believe mainly directed at Ariga. I convinced him not to worry, that it was all a misunderstanding. I forgot about the incident, but Ariga didn’t, and I can’t say I blame her at all.
The thing that really was the last straw was the occasional unannounced visit to the apartment. During the two months that I was in Boston when my father was ill apparently Valer and Ophelia entered several times and stayed there. Ophelia even admitted one day to my mother-in-law on the phone that her son had been stopping by every day, even sleeping there. On a few occasions Valer would show up unannounced to check up on things or do something maintenance-related. One of those times my wife had just finished taking a shower. In February when we were still in Boston he again arrived without giving any warning when my mother-in-law was staying there, alone. He had something to do supposedly, and when she opened the door the first thing he did was enter the bedroom for some reason to look around, and he did the same in the other rooms. Then he sat around and wouldn’t leave for quite some time. When they were both on their feet he brushed up against her a couple of times while running back and forth in the process of accomplishing his errands.
I remember that he called only twice in the more than two years I’ve lived in the place to let me know he had to stop by. The last time he did was at the beginning of last winter, when he decided to take out the square gas jet tube from the ancient kitchen stove that for some reason was still perched on the back porch, even after it was replaced six years previous. His goal was to use the tube in fashioning a makeshift heating stove for his home, not that he had any experience in doing so—I can’t imagine what that thing looks like. This was the kind of person I was dealing with as a landlord.
I have spoken to several people here about etiquette in renting homes. Reality brokers, renters, and other landlords have all conceded that it was improper for someone to show up on a whim to an apartment he/she is renting out, never mind live in the apartment while the tenant is away for whatever reason. So long as the rent is being paid, the landlord has no right to enter the home of the tenant unannounced. I think this is something that was never understood by Ophelia and Valer—although the apartment belongs to them as they are the legal owners, the home that my wife and I created in that apartment belongs to us.
But I should say that they were very good to me; they always treated me well. The first day I moved in five years ago Ophelia showed up with a small pot of dolma—I will never forget that. She didn’t have to do it, but she figured I wouldn’t yet have anything to eat. They invited me to their home several times for dinner or to visit, and I never objected. However, everyone I have spoken to about them or who have actually met them made the same observation: they were trying to gain my interest in their daughter, Armine, for marriage. Apparently she wants to desperately go to America, and she may have figured that I was her ticket out. I was always naïve about that intention, as I never really thought about it—she was only a kid in her late teens then but is now in her early twenties. And I always thought she was a sweet girl, until she chewed out my wife on the phone last autumn.
One weekend we were having one of at least a dozen very minor floods that have occurred over the last two years from the water tanks overflowing for whatever still unexplained reason, and I told Ariga to call Valer and let him know what was going on. At one time last year one of the lines leading from the water main had sprung a leak which dripped slowly into the walls of the bathroom and toilet, eventually completely soaking them from the inside out and causing a slow but steady drip into the neighbors’ apartment downstairs in the process—it took several months to finally diagnose and solve the problem. Valer and I agreed that he would do all the repairs in the house—in fact he insisted, and he repeatedly told me to call whenever there was a problem with the water tanks. So that day Armine answered the phone, and when Ariga proceeded to leave a message for her father, she began barking at Ariga that he was not a maintenance man for us and that we should just leave him alone—we were to hire someone to make repairs in the future. Ariga naturally became upset and cried for the rest of the afternoon. Then I called her to gently tell her off in retaliation and gradually became infuriated throughout the day. The intent to search for an apartment was conceived then, but it was postponed for the winter. Ariga’s insistence over a month ago combined with my mother’s coaxing to search for a place while we were still in Boston convinced me to start looking around. Their son’s comment to me on the phone a couple of weeks ago regarding the rent, when he told me that what I was paying was no longer considered “normal,” was a clear sign that there was no going back on our decision.
We saw a few places together but nothing caught our eyes. There was an apartment on the Cascade Square which overlooked the park there, but the wiring was very old and exposed—in some places two ends were taped together in more than one section of a single line. There was also too much clutter, with large cabinets filled with porcelain bric-a-brac and decorative china that had probably not once been used—standard junk in many apartments I have visited, and overall the place seemed to run down. The brokers who showed it to us were adamant that there were very few apartments for rent to be had in Central Yerevan, which was of course a flat-out lie. Ariga called Bars Realty and they showed her a few places, one near the corner of Demirchian and Proshian Streets, newly renovated but too small, and the other on Hanrabedutian (a.k.a., Alaverdian) Street, just a few blocks up the street from the Nalbandyan apartment. She told me that I should check out both, but when I saw the latter I was hooked, and she also agreed that the place was perfect for us. Although it’s fairly big, which is what I actually prefer—the area being nearly 100 square meters—it’s very sunny and in a generally quieter location, with hopefully much less dust. And all around it’s a much better apartment, for the same rent. We officially move in on April 1.
Judging from the number of times Ophelia called in the last week—at least once a day—to ask when they can bring a broker by to check out the place, it seems they can’t wait for us to leave. On Friday night while I was out she and her son made a surprise visit, apparently to make sure we were really leaving. She wanted to take inventory before we packed and left for some reason, which I didn’t understand, since everything I purchased five years ago I intend to take with me—there was hardly anything in the place when I moved in. Naturally I refused her request, which was made twice in six days.
There are several things I will both miss and rather forget about the Nalbandyan Street apartment. I will miss the comforting, sunlight-drenched front room with its French balcony and a partial view of Mount Ararat, not to mention the metro station and its geyser-like fountain. I will not miss the smog caused by the tens of thousands of cars racing through the center which has subsequently blocked Ararat from being seen completely, not to mention the noxious fumes entering the apartment though the balcony. I already miss the small hamlet that was located just behind the building, and the bustling, village-like life there that I observed from the back porch— grandmothers beating matted wool, kids running around chasing one another, and strutting cats that lived in crevices created from the wearing thin, metal and warped wood rooftops. I will not miss the gaping portal to hell that replaces the homes and instigates rapidly successive dust storms on dry, windy days. I will always cherish the good times I shared entertaining friends and my follies with my wife there. And I shudder when I remember the last days of my first stay when I was very ill, and all alone. It was also the place that gave shelter to my visiting parents in 2005 when they came for our wedding, and where we did much celebrating.
All in all, I am happy to have lived there. It was my first home in Armenia, and it was a fine, warm place. But now it’s time to move on.
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